Parents Do Not Understand Children.
That commencing warm receive from parents when college students return home for the holidays can turn frosty with unexpected force and conflict, an expert warns. "Parents are often shocked when kids spend days sleeping and the nights out with friends, while college students who have grown occupied to freedom and independence chafe at curfews and demands on their time," Luis Manzo, governmental director of student wellness and assessment at St John's University in New York City, said in a tutor news release. The son or daughter they sent away just a semester ago may appear to have morphed.
And "Parents are often stunned by the differences wrought by a few pocket months at college - they meditate their child's body is being inhabited by a stranger. But college is a time when students development to adulthood; and returning home for the holidays is a time when parents and their college kids for to renegotiate rules so both parties feel comfortable".